Confessions Subject Directory
Below is a directory of the subjects I’ve posted since I started Confessions of a Str8 Gay Man for your virgin enjoyment or hardcore rediscovery. Use the monthly archive in the sidebar to retrieve them.
Category headings:
- The Gay Psyche
- Gay Culture
- Man Make-over
- Sex and Where To Find It
- The Hirsute Man
- Gay Personas
- Relationships
- Playing the Web
- Friends and Family
- The Wizard! The Wizard!: Gays and God
- Tripping: My Take on Some So-called Gay Travel Hotspots
- Hangin’ Loose in SoFlo (South Florida)
- The Adventures of Me and My Bud Bill
- My Gay Fiction
The Gay Psyche
| 7/19 | The Silent Majority |
| 10/8 | Power in Numbers: We Could Fill the State of Texas and Then Some! |
| 7/21, 22 | Shades of Gay |
| 7/20 | The New Millennium Gay Lexicon |
| 9/7 | The Homophobic Homosexual |
| 1/15 | One Guy’s Lament: “I Hate Being Gay. It’s a Lonely, Miserable Life” |
| 8/14,15 | Telling Your World |
| 2/15 | What We Look For In a Man |
| 8/3 |
Looking for Mr. Good Dick |
| 2/17 | How Far Would You Go For Mr. Right? |
| 2/24 | Kodak Moments |
| 9/8.10,11 | Forty Years Post Gay Liberation: What Went Wrong? |
| 5/12, 13 | The Male Gay Baby Boomer |
| 8/28, 29 | The Inferiority/Superiority Meter: Our Fragile Egos in Overdrive |
| 2/27 | What’s Gauche in Straight life is Hot in Gaydom |
| 12/15 | Me, Myself and I: Super Egos |
| 5/7 | You Ready for Retirement? (I don’t mean from sex, dude) |
| 1/21 | Canine Obsession |
| 5/10 | Rite of Passage |
| 5/6 | What the Fuck?! Crazy People, Crazy Moments |
| 1/24, 26 | Ten Minutes Left in the Candy Store: Coming Out Late in Life |
| 5/17 | Gay Happiness |
Gay Culture
| 1/9 | Is There Really a Gay Community? |
| 8/4 | The Guy Bar: An Endangered Species? |
| 10/22, 23, 24 | The U.S. Leather Scene: On Life Support? |
| 5/16 | The Gay Gap: Segregation from Without – and Within |
| 11/16 | Twenty Somethings: The Pan-Sexual Generation? |
| 10/10 | Gays and Adoption: Big News in the Sunshine State |
| 12/19 | It’s About Fucken Time: Gays and the Military |
| 10/13 | Personal Reflections on the Gay Bullying Epidemic |
| 4/23 | Gay Double Speak |
| 4/25 | The Gay Nude Sub-Culture |
| 8/9, 10 | “Don’t Flush for Piss:” The Sleaze Factor |
| 1/7 | The Next Best Gay Bar |
| 4/24 | Gay Pride: Proud About What? |
| 12/13,14 | Victims, Self Inflicted |
| 8/22 | “You Party?” |
| 2/24 | Girley Man |
| 11/17 | Gays and Their Cell Phones, iphones, Blackberrys, etc. |
| 1/22 | Cruising in Limbo |
| 1/30 | My Beef with Men’s Fitness Magazine |
| 11/7 | Is Logo Exploitation Television? |
| 9/3 | Was “Queer as Folk” For Real? |
| 2/6 | Stalkers |
| 1/5 | Gay Guys and Their Girl Friends |
| 1/28 | Oz vs. Kansas: The Urban Scene vs. Rural Nowhere |
| 11/29 | Lauderdale’s Leather Masked Ball |
| 10/29 | Halloween, South Florida Style |
| 1/23 | Lauderdale’s Top Gay “Professions” |
| 11/26 | SoFlo Tourists: A Necessary Evil |
| 1/3 | My 2020 Predictions for Gay Life |
Man Make-Over
| 2/28 | Getting in Shape for Mr. Right (or Mr. Right Now) |
| 3/1, 2 | Working Out and More Tales from the Gym |
| 3/3,4 | Cosmetic Surgery |
| 3/5, 6 | Rejuvenation Therapy: Mr. T and More |
Sex and Where to Get It
| 2/27 | So What Are You Looking For NOW? |
| 8/11 | The Dickter (as in Rickter) Scale |
| 2/8 | The Perfect Cock, the Perfect Butt: What’s Your Favorite? |
| 2/4 | What’s YOUR Body Count? |
| 8/30, 9/1 | A Hard Dick Is Hard To Find: America’s Erection Crisis |
| 2/12, 13 | What Happened To Lust? |
| 2/7 | Getting it Up and Keeping It Up: Those Magic Pills |
| 2/9 | Getting It Up and Keeping It Up: It’s All in Your Head |
| 11/15 | The Comings and Goings of Cumming |
| 3/7, 8, 9 | Baths and Sex Clubs |
| 3/11, 10 | Rating the Hook-up Sites |
| 3/12, 9/13 | Making a Scene: Public Sex |
| 1/8, 3/13 | Fuck Buddy Groups |
| 8/5 | The Fine Art of Cocksucking |
| 2/22 | Is Cocksucking a Lost Art? |
| 1/16 | Oral Only, Anyone? |
| 5/5 | The Magic Triangle |
| 11/14, 11/29 | Huge Cocks: Is Bigger Really Better? |
| 5/9 | I’m A Bare Backer Who Should Know Better |
| 12/4 | Extreme Sex: X Marks The Spot |
| 12/5, 6 | This Hand Was Made for Fisting |
| 12/8 | Asphyxiation: How Tight Do You Want It? |
| 12/10 | Scat: Dirty Little Secrets |
| 9/15 | Fetishes: Strange Bedfellows |
| 3/17, 18 | Second Hand Sex |
| 2/11 | Talking Dirty |
| 4/26,27,28,29,30 | Picking Up Str8 Guys |
| 2/10 | Being a Pig Ain’t All Fun |
| 1/31 | Double Booking |
| 3/28 | 7 Men, 32 Hours |
| 3/14, 15, 16 | Midnight At The Oasis: Friday Nite at The Local Sex Club |
| 1/16 | More Porn, Less Sex? |
| 11/18 | The Sex Addict: A Lonely Life. By Design. |
The Hirsute Man
| 8/21 | It’s All About The Fur |
| 2/21 | My Life as a Furry Guy |
| 2/23 | Furry Backs |
| 2/25, 26 | Hairy Men I Have Known, Loved and Even Slept With |
Gay Personas
| 4/3 | Technos |
| 4/5, 9/19 | Bears |
| 4/7 | Muscle Bears |
| 8/20 | The Belt Loop Boys |
| 4/4, 8/6 | Peter Pans and Tinker Bells |
| 4/8, 9/24 | Closet Cases |
| 4/9, 10/4, 6 | Bi’s |
| 4/10 | Extremos |
| 4/6, 8/27 | Flickers |
| 5/15 | A Tale of Two Men |
| 1/29 | Party Boy |
| 10/17 | The Perfect Fuck |
| 12/23 | Airheads |
| 12/1,3 | This Dad Has Two Sons |
| 1/17 | On Your Knees: My Born Again Manhunt Hook-up |
| 12/27-31 | Meth Heads: Ode to Mitch |
Relationships
| 8/23 | “Seeking LTR”: You Sure About That? |
| 2/14 | Gay LTR’s: Fantasy or Fact? |
| 2/18 | Making Relationships Work: Do’s and Don’ts |
| 9/25 | Monogamy: Another Gay Myth |
| 9/12 | Signs Something’s Amiss (in Your LTR) |
| 8/12 | Fuck Buddies |
| 2/16 | Partners Vs. Fuck Buddies: Who’s Better? |
| 2/19 | Fuckin’ Around (and Married) |
| 9/26, 27 | Threesomes: Utterly Decadent or Somewhat Problematic? |
| 2/20 | So You’re Calling It Quits: Getting Out Gracefully |
| 2/2 | Boys Don’t Cry: Are We Adult Males or Love Sick Adolescent Girls? |
Sex Slots: Playing The Web
| 3/19 | The Web: The New Millennium’s Gay Addiction |
| 7/28 | Confessions of a Cyber-spike Addict |
| 3/20 | Cyberspikes: Almost As Good As You Know What |
| 3/21, 22 | What Works and Doesn’t in a Web Profile |
| 10/20 | Family Albums |
| 3/25 | “Caution: You Have Just Entered The No Fuck Zone.” |
| 3/23, 24 | Hook-up Fuck-offs, Cyberstyle |
| 3/26, 27 | Cyber Mindfuckers |
| 2/5 | Will These Web Boys Shit or Get Off the Pot? |
| 5/5 | Reading Between The Lines |
| 5/4 | “BTW, I want let you know I’m Poz, if that’s OK with you” |
| 5/1 | Are The Hook-up Sites Getting Prudish? |
| 9/4 | Web Hook-ups from Hell: Cruising in Craig Country |
Friends and Family
| 8/17, 18 | Friends of the Friendless |
| 12/19 | Friends, Vacation and Fucking |
| 12/21 | Why I Hate The Holidays |
| 5/8 | Memories of My Own “Mommie Dearest” |
The Wizard! The Wizard!: Gays and God
| 12/20 | Yes, God Loves Us. |
| 12/22 | What If Jesus Were Bi? |
Tripping: My Take on Some So-Called Gay Travel Hotspots
| 5/2 | The Pig Vacation Planner |
| 9/29, 10/1 | San Francisco: Resting on Its Gay Laurels? |
| 12/11, 12 | California Dreaming |
| 4/15 | Tampa and St. Pete’s |
| 5/14 | St. Pete’s Revisited |
| 4/13 | New Orleans |
| 4/14 | Chicago |
| 11/22,23,24 | Montreal: Land of the Uncut |
| 4/22 | London, Paris |
| 1/12 | Seattle Seedy |
Hangin’ in So Flo (South Florida)
| 3/29 | Hanging in SoFlo |
| 10/16 | Sebastian Beach, Fort Lauderdale’s Gay Sandbox |
| 3/30, 31 | Haulover: SoFlo’s Nude Beach |
| 4/2 | The Bar Scene for the Str8 Gay Man |
| 1/10 | Blowing A Load: Places to Have Sex (Legally) in Lauderdale |
The Adventures of Me and My Bud Bill
| 9/22 | How We Met |
| 10/8, 9 | Bearcrashing |
| 11/5, 6 | Cockteasing at Sawmill Campgrounds |
| 11/19, 20, 21 | Key West Techno |
| 11/27, 28 | Underwear Nite at The Ramrod |
