Good sex is more than just a heavenly prostate massage or a well handled dick. It’s when two guys, be they lovers, fuck buddies or strangers, are in total lust with one another, mind and body. Where having stiff cocks are more than arousal machines but symbols of how much each guy is into the other, though hard-ons or no hard-ons are secondary to the enjoyment of their mutual physicality and manhood. Where more time is spent touching and stoking and kissing than sucking and fucking, and mutual grins without dirty talk, indeed without words at all, speak volumes.
About the only thing bad sex is good for is making us appreciate good sex, more and more a rare commodity, when suddenly, often unexpectedly, it comes our way.