“If You Need Porn, You Don’t Need Me.”

“If You Need Porn, You Don’t Need Me.”

I said that once to a guy at a bath house who had rented the deluxe room complete with porn. He continued to watch the telly as we started to do the nasty. Ten minutes of this shit and l uttered the above immortal words and walked out.

In some previous blogs l pointed to the growing trend among gay men, especially a sizable number of younger guys who were breastfed on the internet, of using the porny pics on hook up sites and phones apps along with all the commercial and amateur porn that seems to be flooding the internet infinitum as an end in itself instead serving as a means to an end – making it in the flesh. I’ve also written in the past that in my jaded opinion our sex saturated society is making many of us unaroused by the real thing.

Well my suspicions have been confirmed in the results of a recent British study.  One out of four men under 40 suffer limp dick syndrome, the result of watching too much porn which is desensitizing them to in-the-flesh sex. Also, just like a junkie needing a stronger fix, this addiction to porn leads to the need for a porn of an increasingly more kinky variety when the same old suck-and-fuck stuff no longer does the trick.

There is hope though. The cure, which may take a few months to kick in, is to dump the porn and starting doing more of the real thing. You guys with that bottle of poppers and jar of lube by your laptop, some of you sitting on your favorite pseudo-prick, are you listening??

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