How To Keep the Sex Fresh

How To Keep The Sex Fresh

Okay, he and you have gotten together three, five, seven times, and the sex is hotter than ever.  It looks like this may be a budding fuckbuddyship, or even a friend with benefits, or maybe …

But how do you keep the sex fresh, a dilemma in most relationships, str8 or gay? Sure, a relationship shouldn’t be built on sex alone – that’s why some gay boys end up having a string of ex’s –  but wouldn’t be nice to have a guy you like a lot and who likes you continue the mutual lust factor? This is where role playing or what l like to call “Changing the Set” comes in.  It can be scripted in advance or just happen. Some require a little costuming and props (besides the usual boy toys), others nothing at all. What matters is that your play acting makes the two of you hard before your first hellos.

Here’s a few my fuck buddies and l have tested out with pretty good success:

You walk into the bedroom in your underwear and sneakers and he stands there, military style, totally naked, legs spread and hands behind his back, his junk just hanging there, ready for your very, very thorough physical examination. Or both of you stand in front of one another, totally naked, and begin exploring one another’s bodies – very, very slowly…

You play coach in your gym shorts or jockstrap and sneakers and he plays your junior jock, also wearing only a jockstrap and sneaks, eager to find out what he can do to be named captain of the team…

You both put on those low, low cut singlets, try a few wrestling holds on the bed until somebody’s rising pouch is smack in the other guy’s face…

You’re good old boy truckers, boots, jocks and caps, unwinding after a hard day on the road…

You turn the lights down. You’re both naked in a sex club. You grab this guy – he’s from out of town and has never been in a place like this before – and you show him what it’s all about, starting with a kiss on the lips – or his dick…

You’re two married suburban guys on the downlow who tell your wives you’re out with the guys but as your wives go on a shopping spree with those gift credit cards you got them for Christmas – most women would choose that over a hot night of sex – the two of you never leave the bedroom …

Grab a chair or barstool and some twine, tie your mate’s hands behind his back and his legs to the stool – of course, all he’s got on is a jockstrap – and start having your way with him. Who needs all that bondage equipment from Fort Troff?

Or get in a leather frame of mind with some boots and harnesses…

One night, one of my guys and l were winding down, but his murmuring throughout the night about unbuttoning his shirt  – not that he was wearing one – suddenly made me go to my walk-in closet and grab a couple of my old dress shirts. I threw one to him, left the room and put mine on, then came back in. Instantly, we were two corporate types who had been working on a project into the night when we give one another the eye and start unbuttoning one another shirts real, real slow as we explore our nips, then our chests…

I spent all afternoon today checking out the local thrift shops for some used jumpsuits, you know the kind with those long zippers in the front you can zip down ever so slowly, inch by inch…

Hey, if any of you got some “Changing the Set” scenarios, l’d like to hear ‘em.  My FB’s dick and mine thank you in advance.

 

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